Hello to all my wonderful and awesome readers ♥
Thank you to every single one of you that has given me heaps of support since my last blog post! Anyway, I thought I’d finally start up a new blog series that I’ve had floating in my mind for agesss! So, in my 19+ years of life, I have encountered a number of different type of “guys“. So, I thought I would blog about the different type of guys that I have known. So to start it off, let’s talk about a type that I DON’T LIKE.
“The Over-Enthusiastic Guy”
Disclaimer: All names have been changed. And no one is to speculate or assume who the people in this blog post I am referring to are.
Yes. That is exactly what I look like when I think about these type of guys.
I’ve met quite a number of these type of guys in the past few years – not sure why – but either way, it’s not a really nice thing to encounter. Pretty much, these are the guys that see every single female in their vicinity as a potential “girlfriend” (or as I like to call it, “target“) It doesn’t matter whether that girl is taken or not; they will still view them as someone they could possibly “woo” over. And it gets to the point where people start to notice; and are so creeped out by them that they will start to warn their other girlfriends, and simply just avoid them altogether.
For some reason or another, I find that these guys are also very “touchy” and uhmm, “affectionate” in their words? They will sit really close to you, ask for lots of hugs, talk to you non-stop, offer to carry your bag, buy you food, walk you to class, call you pet names like “honey”, message you when you aren’t replying – etc. And this could be all well and good if you like them too, but if you don’t – it’s creepy. And not to mention, they’re doing it to every single other girl hah.
So how do you deal with these type of guys? Well, the way I’ve been handling it so far is: IGNOREEE!
I’ve blocked and deleted quite a number of them because I really don’t feel comfortable around them. And when I see them in real life, I tend to occupy myself with something/someone so they dont’ have the opportunity to talk to me or anything. I guess, it seems mean but when it comes to the point of harassment – then it’s better than pretending to be nice and hoping they’ll get tired of you. (because they probably interpret your niceness as you liking them~_~)
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Have you ever encountered one of these guys? What did you do?
Ahaha. These type of guys really annoy me ;__;! Especially when they just won’t get the hint and leave you alone!
Anddd! If you’re one of my friends reading this, do not jump to conclusions ! But yes, if you’re a guy reading this, please think about how you act around females! Mmm.
Edit: Thank you for 500+ followers! I love you all :) And also, please read my interview on Sara Mari’s FHF here!